Drama Llamas on Lavish.nu

November 8th, 2007 by leslie

Ive got a not so serious bone to pick, lmfao.
Ok, some quick background info on this entry….I am member of a message board called lavish.nu. Ive been reading the board for, forever. Probably since its inception and I decided to become a member, I dunno..maybe a month or so ago. Maybe more. Im really bad with time.
Anyhow, I quickly learned that there is no such thing as a “discussion” on that board. No one can “discuss” anything without it turning into a really, really retarded argument somewhere down the line.
I posted a thread about an idea that I had, about a collaborative photography website dealing with the expression of physical spiritual love and the human form. I asked for peoples opinions on my idea, and instead of getting opinions…I get people trying to start an argument about it. You can actually check out the thread here.

You will see there that the first response I got was…”whats the purpose.” Instead of “I think that idea blows chunks.” Or “Thats a pretty cool idea!” Instead of actually answering my question and posting an opinion, they tried to start an argument regarding the point of the project. Thats not really what I asked. A girl named Chewnicorn was the only person who actually GAVE me an opinion, which I really appreciate. I wasnt asking these people to be a part of it. I wasnt asking them to get into the theology of my idea, lmfao. All I asked for..was..”that fucking sucks!” or “sounds ok.” Or maybe even…”sounds cool.” But, no. That is much, much too complex for the members of lavish.nu.

This is something you will find ALL OVER lavish. Someone starting a thread and just wanting to have a discussion about something and either someone immediately starts an argument about it (in my case) or someone posts their own person opinion and then someone else takes it upon themselves to get offended and start crying and that just starts a whole hailstorm of really pathetic attempts at having an intelligence fueled debate and it just ends up being a mish mash of people crying, people making no sense, and then the few resident “know it all’s” coming along and trying to talk about how they…know it all, then the biggest resident know it all locks the thread. This is a scenario that is played over, and over, and over again and I HAVE NO IDEA WHY.

Does anyone else think its completely fucking retarded? Completely ridiculous that a group of people cant share their thoughts and opinions without having to deal with a couple deluded dumbfucks coming along and whining and crying about how they are offended then some stupid free for all argument breaks out and then the thread gets locked? Whatever happened to INTELLIGENT DISCUSSIONS. I have yet to see even ONE on Lavish. It gets sooo old, so quick.

Ive come across quite a few really cool people on lavish..and then..there are the three or four members who really have a big head and seem to think they are something that they really arent. Im not sure if its just because they dont have enough drama in their real lives (I know that a lot of thems lives revolve around people they met on the internet, so that would definitely indicate a lack of real life action going on) or if they just need some good ol fashioned DICK UP IN THEY PUSSY. That way they get the figurative dick out of their ass.

It never fails, it doesnt matter WHAT you post about, there are a good 4 people I can think of that will come along and somehow or another choose to be offended at something youve said and then theyll cry and then I have to ask them if I need to call the WAHHHmbulance and then they lock my thread.

They will literally argue with brick walls. If that brick wall is red, one will tell the wall its crimson, the other one will KNOW FOR A FACT BECAUSE SHE KNOWS EVERYTHING, that the wall IS in fact, Maroon. And so on, and so on. It is such an annoyance and overall pathetic. Not to mention that you WILL hurt someones feelings with your first post and EVERY OTHER post you make, that person will make sure they reply to you and try so hard to be a cunt to you because their asshole still hurts from where you butt fucked them so hard it made them bleed in previous posts.

You may wonder why I post this here…well, because I cant be censored here. No one here has the power to hide behind moderator abilities and avatars that only show their face because..well..lol, lets not kid ourselves..we all know why we rarely ever see more than a face in most of these peoples pictures. I dont even have to go there.

Well that was fun.

Edit..
Now, with all of that said, I would like to point out that some of the people on Lavish are also the most hypocritical group of people ive ever come across. They will be the first ones to jump into an argument, and then when you show them up at the argument they started..they are the first to cry on the “say something to a lavish member” thread or they just lock your thread so that they can be sure that they have the last word because, heaven forbid they come across as the true morons they are and lose their status’s as lavish.nu’s patron saints of one upping, know it alling, and being deluded.

12 Responses

  1. Bekki

    How can you have a go at people for asking what the purpose of the project was? Surely having some background knowledge of the intentions of the project would only serve to help people form an opinion.

    After all, opinions are what you asked for.

  2. leslie

    Im not so much having a go at them for what they asked, moreso, the reasons behind asking. As opposed to saying “That sounds neat but..why are you doing it?” Its more like I was attacked for proposing the idea. Thats just how it is on Lavish. Everyone is attacked for everything and no one can hold a serious discussion its just everyone trying to throw their weight (no pun intended) around. It just, got old so I decided to bust it.

  3. leslie

    Btw thanks for the comment, I appreciate it girl :)

  4. Kelley

    you got so “pwned” les SO PWNED.

  5. leslie

    I know the pwned the fuck out of me. Im sure they will continue to post about me for a while too, despite the fact I cant see it. Theyre badasses..for realz dude. Psyche.

  6. Kelley

    LULZ LULZ

  7. Ally

    I came in after the fact, but I honestly didn’t see anyone attacking your idea. I saw some people saying they didn’t understand it (well, the purpose of the project)… but I didn’t feel anyone was attacking the idea.

    I did think you came at your second post in the thread a bit defensively, even going so far as to vaguely insult members of the board by saying there were “obvious reasons” why “most people [there]” wouldn’t be “comfortable with the idea”.

    After that, I would’ve expected any further comments to be snarky… yet still, I didn’t get that feeling from them. Certainly, they took exception to your first sentence in the post I just referenced. Some even wished you luck with your project, though they said they wouldn’t submit a picture.

    I think that’s how it goes online. People misunderstand each other and it gets out of hand. It’s a shame it devolved into what it did.

  8. leslie

    EVERYTHING on Lavish devolves into that, lol. Thats why I decided to just say fuck it and get myself kicked off. No one can say anything without a select few people butting in and attempting to rip them apart. Hell, even in the “say somethin to a lavish member” thread, there was a girl saying she rarely posted FOR THAT VERY REASON. Its total crap the way that the moderators and their little minions treat people whom they dont see eye to eye with on that board. Sorry, but I dont agree with it, and I disagree with it so strongly that I decided to act up and get myself kicked off because its BULLSHIT, lol. There should be NO reason why people with opposing views should feel like they cant post because people are just going to try and argue and demean them, when half of the time, the people trying to demean them are morons anyway.
    Anyhow, thank you for the comment, lmao.

  9. Ally

    I am a moderator on Lavish, and I don’t feel as though I act that way. If I disagree with someone, I’ll speak my piece… but if it’s not going anywhere or starts devolving, I drop it unless there’s a point to be made… or if there’s a reason for moderator-type action (if someone breaks a board rule, or some such).

    I agree that no one should feel as though they shouldn’t post simply because they hold an opposing view. I do think that Lavish can be intimidating at times… but at some point you have to be willing to jump into the fray. Even if I don’t agree with someone’s point of view, I will attempt to respect it, given they have thought it out and aren’t being contrary for the sake of being contrary.

  10. Kelley

    ^ Allyson’s always been way cool, imo.

    And I’m a little bit offended that you were not asking if I would participate. God, what idiot doesn’t want to see their own cousin in a sexual position?

    ahaha. My back is ugly anyway

  11. Jenn

    I didn’t see anything until after the fact. I’m sorry things turned out as they did. :/

  12. leslie

    Lmfao Kelley.
    Jenn, you dont have to apologize. I do think that when there is girl posting that she doesnt feel “safe” posting on Lavish because the other people are going to jump down her throat, then something needs to be done.
    There is a great line between having opposing views with a few people, and discussing your views..and bitches trying to jump all over you because theyve allowed themselves to get offended over your different opinion, and thats how it happens on that message board. There is no calm discussion of views and opinions there. Unless you are talking about getting fucked, having your period, having a baby, or kissing SOME moderators asses…you are an enemy and ive said it once and ill say it again..THAT IS BULLSHIT.

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